Yes I like to have crazy monkey sex once in a while, but I care about the person I'm involved with, I care about the people they'll be with in the future, about possible children, about possible careless mistakes that could ruin someones life... OP, I congratulate you on your efforts, its not something that is seen very often, and even the thought of not sleeping with someone after the first week or so, well, its impressive...my input.
But I'm not entirely convinced that it's much better away from the cities.
there are truely conciderate and respectful people out there who aren't out for an easy peice of tail.
I don't think I said religious "nut", but in my personal experience, I haven't met any people that were abstinent into their twenties without the religious driver. i mean the fools who thing its wrong for people not to have control over their own bodys and what comes out should **** off.
Too many people are looking for sex and then they wonder why it didn't work out when nothing else was matched up first. if you can tell me why sex is bad then do so and if not than **** you.
Holy crap, I abstained from sex in relationships when I was in my teens, but now that I'm in my thirties, I want it to be a part of the relationship after I know the man and am ready for it. its people like you that make the rest of us afraid to try and sleep with people on the first datesmy 13 year old sister just took a vow of abstinence until she's on her own and ready (physically, emotionally, mentally, financially), her reason: her best friend got pregnant, and the father doesn't want any part of it.